I don’t know if you heard but New Orleans got a lot of snow! I was able to play in it and it was something that I thoroughly enjoyed. After, me and my man went inside and had all sorts of fun. It was a great weekend. I introduced the strap on to my guy – who had requested it – and decided to see how it would go. After, he said he loved it but asked the question:
Strap On Play : Am I Gay?
Yup. This question was asked after and I was a bit startled by it. I take all kinds of calls and questions like this all the time on the phone, but when it’s asked from the guy I love – I wasn’t sure how to answer at first. Why would he ask this? I asked – well … do you think about men? Do you have fantasies that I should know about? In that, I got a firm no! I just like how it feels in my ass. LOL. I said, then no, you’re not gay at all! You just like your prostate stimulated….
After he answered me I did go and ponder a bit about how I would respond if he had told me he thinks about men. What would I have said? What would I have done? As accepting as I am of gay men – I don’t necessarily want to compete with other MEN. It’s bad enough competing with other women. I am the Queen and if he doesn’t treat me as such, he’s banished from my court! Now if he had answered that he’s bisexual and is attracted to both genders, yet, loves me still – I could certainly make room for that!
But no – if you love prostate stimulation – or even if you like to suck cock on the side – I wouldn’t label anyone as gay.
It didn’t stop me from looking at his porn history though in which I did and found nothing strictly gay. I mean, I had to. I know that many men keep secrets and are embarrassed to admit this to their partners so I had to check.
Which begs the question –
What Does Make you gay?
If you are wondering if you are gay – here’s your litmus test: If you think about men ALL the time and are no longer attracted to women – were you ever? If you are no longer attracted to women or never were, then yes, you are gay. But having a fling or not wanting to have a romantic relationship with men – it’s just bisexuality and experimental. This has been going on for thousands of years- and it’s nothing new. In Greek times, homosexuality or bisexuality was widely accepted and it wasn’t shameful as far as I have read in the history books. I know true gay men in my life and those that I talk to who wonder aren’t usually gay. It’s just playing around.
I Am Here To Explore
With that being said though, I’m here to explore with you in case you’re still not sure, or if something has changed for you. Sometimes we go our whole lives with not really knowing ourselves and the something happens where we find out that yes! We are indeed gay, or bi, or just straight. It takes time to really get to know ourselves. I am usually good with breaking down someone’s psyche by asking many questions and seeing where it all leads. Especially if you’ve never been with a man before – sometimes you’re just not sure unless you were totally solid in your feelings about it from the start.
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