For Christmas this year, I’m investing in new bondage gear. Some boys I play with love it and so do I. I’m going to be immersing myself in learning more about all the right ways to tie up and titilliate. I think it will be so much fun.
RolePlays with Bondage Gear
My boyfriend and I especially love to role-play and we’ve been talking a lot about doing different scenarios. Perhaps he “breaks in” and I capture him and tie him up and tease him until he can’t take it anymore. Or maybe I’m just a sadistic, yet sensual, type of woman who also captures him and ties him up and teases him for hours on end. We have certainly done a lot of teasing and tantalizing but not enough bondage so far. I’m thinking of furry handcuffs and also some blindfolds would be specially fun to play with!
We have certainly done a lot of different role-plays over the years – but my favorite so far is when I get to act like his boss who takes over – or, we have even made it to where I’m his secretary and I take over and take his job because I can.
What Kind of Toys Do You Enjoy?
Speaking of bondage gear, I just might have to add to my collection of toys that I already have but need to expand it. I would love to get a bunch of teasing toys – vibrators, maybe some flashlights – etc. I’m looking for inspiration – which are your favorites? This way, I can just add to my collection and keep it going. I think you can sense a theme here – and that I am going to be primarily focusing on teasing and bondage. Mostly because I LOVE it so much, but so does my boyfriend. Honestly, if you keep a guy teased and on edge – as a woman, you’re going to gain so much from that. I myself find my man to be way more attentive to me and my needs.
Which seems to be a problem in a lot of women’s life these days because there are so many distractions.
Capturing the Cock
Which lends to this point: if you can capture a man’s imagination, and his cock – then you have got him. The love part will follow. I think it’s so important, as a woman, to listen to the man’s needs – even if he is submissive. Because if you can keep him happy and submissive – you’ve got him. I can’t speak much from my point of view as I’m not submissive and could not be submissive to a man. But if you are submissive – then you can be attentive to your man’s or woman’s needs, and to make sure you are with someone who is actually attentive to your submissive needs. You see, submissives need fulfillment just as much as a Dominant’s needs. It’s so very important to do this.
For me, that means if I capture the cock and control – I’ve captured the submissive man and I benefit a great deal from this. He attends to my needs 10 fold. This is very important to a dominant woman.
This is why I love to study what I can do next to capture the attentive, submissive man. It’s so important. A lot of dominants think that this is about them but this is not true. It takes two to tango – as they say – and life is a dance. As a dominant woman, I lead this often.
So capturing the submissive cock is an important thing for me – hence, why I’m researching new ways to do bondage and get some different toys to make things more exciting.
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