I had someone call me the other day and we spoke at length about their relationship. He told me his wife was going out behind his back and he only found out through various clues she had left: panties that looked … well you know …, new lingerie, not coming home until 2 am and reeking of sex.
Then, he followed her and witnessed that she had gone into a hotel with a man he’d never seen before.
He told me “She’s cuckolding me”.
Deciphering the Difference of Cucking and Cheating
I had to correct him. I said, you never knew about this – she didn’t tell you, nor did you have a conversation about this before, right? He uttered a flat “no.” I said, she’s cheating on you! Now, with mixed feelings of heartbreak, jealousy and arousel – my poor A was CLEARLY confused and had a lot to work through.
If your wife is out and not telling you that she’s having an affair – then, it’s cheating. Cuckolding is a bit more transparent and it’s set up on negotiations in the relationship: whether or not you are going to be there to watch, or not watch – clean up, getting her ready and sometimes – you can pick out the guy!
But that all comes with communication and that is what really determines the difference between the two: whether or not YOU are involved.
To Humiliate or Not to Humiliate? That is the Question
I had another guy tell me that he wasn’t in a true cuckold relationship because he’s not being humiliated. I was like, what? I said, cuckolding doesn’t always involve humiliation, honey! If you choose to be humiliated, then, you can. But you’re still being cuckolded if your girl is having sex with another man and you know about it.
I guess my question is: how can you NOT be humiliated if your girl is having sex with other men. Wouldn’t any man find that humiliating? Maybe someone can clear that up in the comments for me and what you think to be true. I know different people have different opinions about it.
But if you like to be humiliated – well – cuckolding fits nicely with humiliation because I’m not sure I can find a better way for a man to feel humiliated. Of course, there are a thousand different ways to humiliate but I’d say being cuckolded is in the top 5!
Who Has Been Cuckolded? Is it Common?
I’d say it’s common around here to talk about – but if I were to put my thumb on the pulse on the commonality of it – I’d say, it’s a popular topic online but maybe not so much in the real world. But this is where you can come in: what have you heard? Have you been cuckolded? Do you think it’s common? I’d love to hear your insights and what you have done. Cream pies? Did you choose the guy? What happened?
I have actually been in the cuck scene, in and out, for years. I can seriously relay a lot of of my experiences into the matter and my expertise on things that go REALLY well and sexy, and situations that can get … awkward – especially for the cuckolded man in my life. LOL
I have some stories….
I’m sure some of you have some stories as well and also some erotic fantasies – which of course – I don’t mind hearing about either because if you can’t have reality, fantasies are also super sweet (and sometimes less complicated).
I’d love to hear from you now and what you think. And as always, reach out to me at guidedpersuasionliz@gmail.com for questions with sessions, etc.
Mistress Liz
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