I have known, and talked to many crossdressers over the years and I always ask the question when they put on panties, lingerie or other women’s clothing: what do you do after?
The Difference of How One Approaches Crossdressing
I’ve spoken to many who just lounge about on the bed or coach, or even doing work at their desk in lingerie and stockings – because it makes them feel sexy. And they do it as much as they can. They don’t have any other goal in mind than to just feel sexy. I can definitely get behind this as I do the same sometimes. I don’t always feel the need to whip out the vibrator or call my guy to come over for fun – I just want to wallow in my femininity. I’ll even spray on some perfume to make it extra special.
Others have a mission. I call them my mission-oriented crossdressers. Once they crossdress, they are set to get something done: either by themselves or with someone. I’ve found this is approached in different ways too:
Some will go out shopping in the dress and heels, while others wear panties underneath their khaki pants in hopes they are found out.
Those that stay in will call me and masturbate as they fantasize while others want to watch porn and play with whatever toys they have.
How Do You Approach Crossdressing?
I suppose this is a question for those that do: how do you approach it? Because I always find it fascinating how everyone looks at this. Do you hide it and only do it behind closed doors? Or do you take it out into the world and don’t care who notices?
Do Mistresses Encourage Crossdressers?
Absolutely. I do. I try to encourage crossdressers to get out as much as possible to shop, and show off – but only if they feel safe and comfortable. It’s exhilarating for a sissy or crossdresser to show off and they should – as much as they can.
But those that are too scared – it’s okay. You can stay inside and dress when you can. Some live in the “closet” for years without anyone ever knowing.
Different Styles of Crossdressing
What is your style of crossdressing? Is it lingerie? Sissy? Secretary? I have had some crossdressers over the years who like to dress conversatively all the time – below the knee skirts, blouses and looking as if they are going to click clack their heels into the office as a secretary.
Others get much much more sissy about it: frills, petticoats, lacy, pale pink and cute little button noses with blush. Others are much more vixeny with their red lipstick, black lingerie from Frederick’s and much more bold.
What kind of sissy are you and which movie character or model do you aspire to be?
What I do as a Mistress in Crossdressing
I encourage, I guide and I teach all things woman. Nail polish, make-up, how to dress and everything in between. I love to also do trance and mantras to get you over your fears. I also know about all kinds of toys to use.
It’s important to know all this – if you’re a new crossdresser, or even older – and yes, I’ve had some crossdressers who were well-educated and taught me a thing or two!
I know a lot – but being a woman is always a learning experience.
You can find me most days in the mornings for sessions – I’m available then. I’m in the south, but find me between 11 am EST – 6 pm EST most days.
Talk to you soon, my effeminate one – Ms Liz
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