It’s been a long time since I blogged, but I wanted to give you an update to what’s been going on – lots and lots of domination. I’m pretty busy these days in doing trancing-style sessions where I can control, mind-bend, and program. This is also very useful when trying to remove blocks. So I wanted to talk about that a bit – mental blocks.
Mental Blocks in Sexuality
What are they? What stops you from doing something that you actually love, and that is really, at the core of you – YOU. If I am to broach the topic of feminization, there are many mental blocks that can come up. I’m not talking of “coerced” feminization – but that feeling where you felt you should have always been a woman and what’s been stopping you is really you. Sure, of course, jobs and society could frown on this. But what you do on your own time, or what you do with your life because you feel THAT strongly about it is your business. So how do get over this? Trancing can help. Talking about it with Me, or even Ms Erin can help. Also, being given assignments and tasks can help. You always have to look at it like a baby-step process. I’ve talked to many many people who put their dreams and desires on the back seat to appease those around them. If you’re not hurting anyone by being who you really are – then why deny it any further?
But Mistress Liz — I can’t be this way in public. Sure, you can. Just in your own style. Wearing panties underneath your jeans … maybe a ribbon tied around your clit…. perhaps it’s even as subtle as wearing jeans that are gender-neutral. Or, maybe have a tiny little flower on it.
Other Forms of Sexual Blocking – I’m a MAN! I can’t Possibly Be Submissive!
Who said? Have you really thought about – I mean really thought about why you’re submissive? What shaped you that way? In my years of talking to a lot of submissive closeted- men – I have found that many experiences happened when they were younger and they had an experience. Maybe it was something on TV you saw – wonder woman comes to mind…. Cat woman…. Super Girl. Maybe it was a that mean girl in college. Or the overly dominating girlfriend who showed you a thing or two about bondage. Maybe it was porn and it resonated with you. Whatever it was – it made you who you are now.
So let’s have a discussion about it. Let’s figure out what it is that makes you who you are.